Fidget Toys-Tools (For Me)

 How fascinating - as I was just about to compose my blog post for Monday, I searched the blog archives and discovered I wrote about a very similar topic just two years ago on this blog about my "calming tool corner" and the items I included.

I noticed that the latest trend/fad/must-have-gadget on the playground is a version of "infinity bubble wrap" - soft flexible plastic that has bubbles you can pop in and out. I thought they'd make a great addition to my school library and that I could even use them in these "hygiene heavy" times because they'd be easy to spray down. The students told me about a couple of places I might find them. On Friday at lunch (it was a PA Day so I had a bit more time than usual), I picked up a "mystery box" of fidgets, as well as one just for myself.

I didn't realize how much I'd like the one I bought for me! I used it while waiting in line at the mall. I used it while watching my offspring play Animal Crossing New Horizons. It's very relaxing. I like the texture both of and on the "dimples" (mine is called a "Simple Dimple") and the soft but satisfying pop it makes (too quiet to disturb others but noticeable enough for me to notice). I used it to show my friend Sarah when we had dinner together on Saturday. (Sarah and I have a lot of exciting plans, but until they get further along, I don't want to share them yet. The last time I did a project with Sarah, we learned about a particular social media platform. We'll have four things to occupy us and all will be marvelous.)

Now, does it totally replace other methods of relaxation? No. Getting a good night's sleep (and supplementing it with a nap when you can) is still beneficial. I did that this weekend. So is taking it easy with those you care about and pacing yourself, which is also why this weekend was so delightful.(We ate out a LOT and even went as a family to see the film Ghostbusters Afterlife. I completed my Queen's University AQ's third Progress Reports without rushing and that made me feel accomplished.) Dare I say it, even exercising is a decent stress-buster (even though I complain every time I go to the gym, and I go three times a week). However, the popper fidget device I purchased for myself was so soothing, I'm considering buying some as Christmas gifts and getting more for my school library. (Maybe I won't think about Christmas quite yet; that's a source of stress instead!)